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male sex toys Gender both how we identify with it and how others identify us through the lens of gender can also play a part in the way we'll have any sort of sex, how we present our sexuality to others, how we feel comfortable or uncomfortable in our sexual behaviour and attitudes, and how we might expect the dynamics of our sexual relationships with others to be We can all see this a lot in opposite sex relationships, where there are so many assumed norms and roles between men and women: about who should be doing the asking out, taking sexual leadership, claiming sexual responsibility, setting sexual limits and boundaries, being "outwardly" sexual, even about what is the "right" way, in terms of gender, of having sex at all, such as ideas that it's not "manly" for men to enjoy receptive anal sex or not "feminine" for women to ask for sexual activities through which they have an orgasm when their male partner has had his.
Queer people, relationships and community are not automatically immune from typical gender roles either: lesbians are often some voluntarily, but some involuntarily divided by appearance and behavior into binary butch and femme categories which are often expected to mimic traditional male and female gender roles (even though many gay women who use butch and femme will often voice that that's not the way they experience those roles)